So irritated by those who think Ianto suffers from a lack of backbone in this episode.
No man who happily goes out to buy a wedding dress could ever be accused of suffering from backbone!
And I thought Ianto's jokey excuse-me when Jack and Gwen were dancing in order to break with tradition and dance with the other guy instead of the girl was great - angsty? worried? insecure? Like hell! Another example of dry wit, I reckoned. Though I wouldn't put it past to him to step on Jack's foot just to keep him in line!